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Smile! (:

There's Power in all the choices we make,
So I'm starting now not a moment to wait,
A word just a word,
Until you mean what you say,
A love isn't just a love,
Until you give it away.

Hmm.. today was okay i guess.
nothing much to blog about.
Ohh, there's this song i like,
you should check it out,
maybe i'll just post it here. :D

Send It On - Jonas Brothers, Demi Lovato, Selena Gomes, Miley Cyrus. :D

Why do people have to lose things to find out what they really mean?

The choices i have made,

Probably weren't the best ones,

And now, i feel like I'm swimming in regret.

-__-

Omg, i think I'm falling sick. :(

I can feel the heat from my forehead.

I hate it when i cough.

Damn painful.

Hope I'll get better soon.

Haiz.

JA : Oops, my bad? :( I HAVE FLU AND COUGH. FEAR ME.

NR : lol! I have flu, fever, cough and sore throat. -___-
JA : I now have sore throat and vomitting also. :(

Love Style?

So apparently there are styles of love :D


Not everyone experiences love in exactly the same manner.

Research has shown that love comes in several different forms or styles (see, Lee and Regan). For the most part, people experience love as a blend of two or three of the styles listed below. Essentially, people have different notions of what it means to "be in love."
So apparently there are styles of love...


Styles of Love:

Eros – some people experience love with a lot of passion, intimacy and intensity. Love based on Eros has a strong sexual and emotional component. People who experience love this way want to be emotionally and physically close to their romantic partners and they tend to idealize love. Such love is marked by passion as well as compassion (kindness and consideration). Eros is best viewed as romantic, passionate love - the type of love that creates excitement at the beginning of a new relationship.

Ludus – some people experience love as a game to be played with other people’s emotions. The goal or desire is to gain control over a partner through manipulation. People who experience love as Ludus like to have multiple love interests where they are in complete control. Lying, cheating and deception are common for people who experience love as Ludus – it’s all part of the game. For people who experience love as Ludus, it is satisfying to outwit a partner and exploit his or her weak spots.

Storge – some people experience love as a gradual and slow process. When love is based on Storge, getting to know someone comes before having intense feelings for that person. Love based on Storge takes time, it requires genuine liking and understanding of a partner, and it develops slowly over time. Love based on Storge is often compared to the love that one has for a friend. In fact, people who experience love as Storge often fall in love with their friends.

Agape – some people experience love as caregiving. Love is the overwhelming desire to want to take care of a partner - a parental or nurturing type of love. Love based on Agape is attentive, caring, compassionate and kind - a more altruistic or selfless type of love.

Mania – some people experience love as being out of control. Love is an overwhelming experience; it turns one’s life upside down and it results in a complete loss of one’s identity. Love based on Mania is crazy, impulsive and needy. People who experience love as Mania fall in love quickly, but their love tends to consume them. Love experienced as Mania also tends to burnout before it gets the chance to mature. Such love is often marked by extreme delusions, feelings of being out of control, rash decisions, and vulnerability. People who experience love as Mania are easily taken advantage of by people who experience love as Ludus.

Pragma – some people take a practical approach to love. Love is not crazy, intense, or out of control. Love is based on common sense and reason. People who experience love as Pragma tend to pick a suitable mate the way most other people make serious life decisions: picking a partner is based on careful consideration and reason. Practical concerns underlie this type of love.

The love styles listed above have also been linked to one’s style of attachment.

• Eros and Agape are linked to Secure Attachment
• Mania is linked to Anxious Attachment
• Ludus is linked to Dismissing Attachment
  

Overall, when thinking about love and relationships, sometimes it helps to keep in mind that love does not always mean the same thing to everyone.


Hmm, so then I guess mine will be Eros (minus the sex thing. I don't do sex) and Agape. :D

So on Saturday, I went to 1 Utama for Nicole's Surprise Party. About half the class was there. Oh and Poh Yee and Ginny came with me too! :D We went there at about 10 something, and we were the earliest. -_-

Then we saw Sheau Swan and Shannon and walked to Pizza Hut. And nobody was there yet.

So we decided to camwhore. :D


After that when everyone arrived, we went into Pizza Hut. And I swear I'm never ever gonna eat there anymore. The food was so gross. :( And I hate pizzas. So we started camwhoring more! :D When everyone finished eating, we made Nicole give a speech. It was so lame. xD



Lunch was over, everyone went separate ways. Some went back, some followed the gang. Me and Ginny went shopping though.

This is what I bought. :D

Anklet
Red top (Ginny has one too!)
Wind Chime
Lillian's Present & Card (Paid half for both)
... Is that all?

I felt like I bought more. :( But then I spent all my pocket money. And now I'm so poor. I saw a 500 piece jigsaw puzzle though. It was of a girl and a unicorn. I want it so so bad!

After that we met up with Fong and the others again, and took more pictures! Then we went home!

So there's two things I want to post about. :D


NICOLE FONG!! You're moving to Hong Kong! I'm gonna miss you so freaking muchhchhchhh. You better come back to visit us someday. :D Damn sad though cause I was hardly there on Saturday. Oh well, I'll see you the next time I go to Hong Kong.

Hong Kong Fong! :D


And..



LILLIAN! HAPPY 15TH BIRTHDAY! I realised how we hardly take pictures. And this is the only one I could find. Hope you like the present from me and Ginny! :)

P.S. We need to take more pics!

fallalalaa

Me and Neeti are camwhorers. :D And I like making funny faces. Bite me. -_-
Oh and the lala poses are just for fun. :D We're not lala.

she just don't want to look at you.

so you'll have to put up with me.

oh now she does.

but then i got pissed off.

idkwtf. she's scared of me i think.

let's just ignore this.

don't ignore this.

she ran out of poses.

hah?

well she saw this pretty purple thing. which turned out to be a bra.

neeti pisses me off so much. :D

oh wait. it was actually the book.

she went like 'wtf' at the book because it pissed me off.

so for her sake, i learnt to love it.

so she loved it too.

and i grew extra huge long colourful fingernails.

she went to search for her fingernails.

idk what's its name.

whatsitsname.

me and neeti's nail polishes. :D

we painted patches scratches nails. :D

when i say ":P" online, this is how i actually do it.

this applies for ":D"

combination of :P and ... something.

Lit Night was so bloody fun la!

I'm so gonna miss Lit Night. And skipping class. And staying back for practices. ):
I wish I could do Lit Night all over again! I wish I could turn time back to Friday.

Wheeeeeeeeeeee. (:

Lights, Camera, Action!

Lit Night was FUNNNN! :D

Even though it got boring at the end,
It was still fun! :D
Oh btw,
Thanks Darren for helping us! xD
We owe you one :)
joannnn!
You looked adorable! x)
Well nothing much to say,
So see ya! :D

Ps: Manchester United won 3 - 2 against Malaysia